Fuckbuddys have been around forever. In fact, if you are big into Greek mythology and ancient literature, they’ve always been around. The names change, the terminology may change from age to age and historic period to historic period, but the concept is still the same.
There’s an element of taboo as well as excitement when it comes to having sex with friends. This can vary from culture to culture, but it really ultimately boils down to having your cake and eating it too.
Most people would like to have it both ways. Most people would like to have amazing friendships where people support each other and are there for each other pretty much in any kind of situation and set of circumstances. On the other hand, they also want to have a good time physically with their friends.
Well, you know and I know that in most normal situations, this is a non starter. Seriously. It leads to all sorts of headaches and you’re opening a whole can of worms. You’re creating more problems than you’re solving, but the allure and the appeal remains the same.
Also, let’s face it, a lot of guys are lazy. Instead of getting out there and finding the right relationships in terms of sex, they’d rather shit where they eat. Well, let me tell you, when was the last time you took a shit where you ate? It should be obvious that it’s not a good idea.
Unfortunately, too many people would rather find out in the worst way possible, so let them have it. Sometimes you have to get burned just to realize that the big deal about fire being hot and being dangerous is real. So go for it. Focus on what you stand to gain instead of fixating on what you think you can lose. If you are completely honest with yourself, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.